Have you ever wondered what kind of energy you have? If you have noticed the room’s energy changing when you walk into a room, you might have a dark aura. Maybe people avoid you, maybe they go out of their way to avoid a conversation with you. The conversations that were loud before you walked suddenly fizzling when you try to join may indicate something very important about energy.

One of the most important signs is you are stuck in a loop of negativity; you are never satisfied and always feel like that you are drowning in your emotions. Despite trying your best, you simply cannot shake this attitude off. Having a dark aura is not a prison sentence and actually very common. Let’s talk about the top three signs that signal that you might have a dark aura.

There are also ways to get around it; if you are curious, keep reading-

What Is a Dark Aura?

Aura is like your very own weather system; it resembles an energy field, except this energy field constantly surrounds you. The field reflects almost everything about you-your mood, your feelings, and your general vibe. This aura is different for each person, and its color and intensity completely based on everything you do and face in your daily life. What you absorb from the world around you, your aura reflects that.

Having a dark aura does not mean that you are a bad person; you are not a terrible person with an even worse personality. It simply means that your aura has picked up all your unresolved trauma and anxieties that you do not deal with and is clinging to the negative vibes.

All of the bad stuff you have gone through, the bad breakups, and stress start accumulating and begin to taint your aura. You are subconsciously holding onto emotional baggage and grudges. Going through periods of intense grief also leaves its mark on your energy.

Here are the signs you should look for:

You Are Draining Others’ Energy

One of the most important signs you should not ignore is this-you are actually draining other people’s energy. You end up draining your own energy too.

Here’s what people might notice about you:

• Friends and family feel tired and cranky after spending time with you. They end up feeling numb at the end of the hangout.
• Even simple conversations start turning negative and you end up finding negative aspects even of negative situations. You try your best to be positive and still fail.
• People always never want to tell you their achievements, because they feel like you will not share in their joy.
• People constantly tell you that you are “too much.” You constantly feel on edge and do not know how to handle social interactions.

Dark aura automatically ruins the vibe of a room. When you come across who is has a positive attitude, you end up feeling drained after. Your energy is telling you something important about your personality, it is time you listen to it.

Chaos Keeps Finding You

If you feel like your life is cursed, and every relationship you have gets sabotaged, then it might have everything to do with your aura. You keep repeating the same patterns over and over again; you face the same set of problems just with different people every time.

You may notice:

• Romantic relationships turn toxic, no matter how you try to date good people.
• Unexpected finances always seem to haunt you. Just as you succeed in saving some money, your pet gets sick and you have to rush them to a vet.
• Friendships always end in a betrayal or bad fights, no matter how much you cherish that person. They always end up letting you down in painful ways.
• In the workplace, you end up clashing with your co-workers and never get along with them.

It’s not always your fault; you just end up attracting the same sort of people, and your dark aura traps you in a vicious cycle of betrayals and toxicity. Everyone has bad luck, but if you start noticing patterns then your aura is responsible.

You Are Disconnected and Numb

This sign is one of the most telling. You, at your very core, feel disconnected from the world, and your friends. You cannot bring yourself care about things anymore and you think, “It’s just how things are.” You do not feel things at a deeper level and are not in touch with your own emotions.

People who have a dark aura often report:

• Feeling empty even when things are going their way. They never feel satisfied and do not feel like celebrating good occasions.
• Feeling it difficult to connect with others; they always end up being excluded. Connections take too much effort to mention.
• Feeling numb and not being able to process emotions in a healthy way. They do not how to deal with their emotions without it consuming them. They either feel everything too deeply or not at all, there is no middle ground.
• Feeling like they are being watched and always feel like they are being pulled back by something heavy.

This disconnects stems from deeper issues like unresolved grief and losses. It happens when you are unable to process them properly. Buried emotions end up affecting your aura.

How To Deal with A Dark Aura

If you have a dark aura, do not panic. It’s actually good that you noticed these signs and are trying to better your energy.

• Salt baths help you relax and declutter your mind. It will help you feel less tense and start the day with a fresh mind.
• Meditation is another good way you can deal with your negative aura. Focus on letting go of old grudges.
• Spend time outdoors and reconnect with nature; it will help you feel in control of yourself.

Your dark aura is not unsolvable issue; it can be dealt with proper efforts and help.